So I have this friend Holly. I met her at work and we instantly connected. We always to the clubs together and partied at her house. She was always there for me and I was always there for her. So...when she called me and told me that she was getting married I was ecstatic for her. I don't see her too often because she doesn't work where I do anymore and she lives in Lakeview . We just have different schedules. She explained to me that they weren't going to have a big wedding at all and that she was only going to have a maid of honor and that was going to be her best friend from like 5th grade. No big deal, I didn't care. I just simply said that I wanted to go to the wedding. She said that it was only going to be family but since I was so close with her that I woudl be invited. Her wedding was scheduled for Valentine's day because her and her man met on Halloween, he proposed on Thanksgiving, so they continued to go with holidays and planned it for V-Day! So as it was approaching her big day I frequented her facebook. I kept seeing her status being changed and once it said "thanks to everyone who came to my bridal shower" Ummmm excuse me? I wasn't invited? WTF! I was pissed, so I commented on the status and said "I would've went but I wasn't invited" then I waited and waited for my invitation in the mail. Never showed up! So I was like okay maybe she's mad at me...so I wrote her on facebook asking her when the wedding was and all the info. She erased my message along with the one that said I was never invited to the bridal shower.
At this point, I was like okay...this is not cool. I never did anything wrong to her or her man, so whats the big deal. So I wrote her a couple hours ago in a personal note on facebook and asked her what the deal was...you know her response? My dad and step-mom were paying for the wedding and after what you did at my cousins wedding, they really didn't want to invite you, so they didn't. Sorry, but I had to respect their wishes. Okay, on the background note...her cousins wedding was 2 summers ago...I was young and got served at the bar. EVERYONE was getting hammered and so did I. I might have hit on her dad because NO JOKE he looks exactly like Keanu Reeves...maybe plus 7 years. But identical. So I understand a little bit but Holly's wedding and reception was going to be a dry reception. So that would've not been a problem. So it really hurt my feelings that they couldn't get over that. What? Did they think I was going to show up drunk? HA, no!!! So I cried. And now I feel depressed because I missed one of my really good friends wedding because I was retarded when I was younger and her parents couldn't get over it. Honestly I think it was the bitch of the mans wife because he was all blushing and giggly and stuff when I was tellin him he looked like Keanu. It wasn't like I was mackin on him, just paying him compliments. UGH I just don't know what to say anymore...I am all vented out! But it just sucks, ya know!?!?
